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No one wants to think that our friends or acquaintances might have been sexually assaulted or abused. Yet statistics suggest that we all know survivors, whether or not we’re aware of it. Sexual assault and abuse survivors who receive positive social support are less likely to develop post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, or substance abuse issues, research shows. “When a survivor of sexual violence chooses to disclose to a friend, this friend can help set the tone for the recovery process,” says Kelly Addington, founder of One Student, an advocacy organization addressing sexual assault in student communities. “Focusing on the survivor and how you can support them is much better than focusing on the attack.”
On campus: Consider discussing the situation with a counselor, Title IX coordinator, trusted dean, or RA. Before disclosing assault or abuse to campus faculty or staff, ask about the implications for confidentiality.
Find local advocacy and support: Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (RAINN)
Live anonymous private consults: RAINN
Helping a friend after sexual assault: University of New Hampshire
Support a friend: Know Your IX
How to support a male friend: 1in6
Confidential chat: National Domestic Violence Hotline
LGBTQ support (call, chat, or text): Trevor Project
Legal advice for sexual assault survivors in school: School Violence Law
Programs and resources for addressing sexual violence: One Student