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Casey Corcoran, program director, Futures Without Violence.
Dana Cuomo, coordinator of victim advocacy services, University of Washington.
Gabe Murchison, senior research manager, Human Rights Campaign.
Rachel Pain, PhD, professor, Department of Geography; co-director, Centre for Social Justice and Community Action; Durham University, UK.
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